This is a handbook for people to learn more about a type of relationship known as Dominance and Submission. I do not pull punches or try to soften the language used. If you are easily offended, do not continue reading sex and dominance Guide. I are writing this from the experiences of others and my own experiences.
This is by no means an endorsement of this lifestyle. It is meant as a guide to those who seek a greater understanding, or who are interested, but don’t know how to start. Master or Dom controls the actions, emotions, and will of the slave, or submissive, often referred to as “sub”. The Master seduces the slave with his power, the slave seduces the Master with their willingness and servitude.
Sex does occur in the relationship, but in this Guide, I am discussing the lifestyle, not sexual practice. Dominance and Submission are not to be confused with Sadomasochism. To make this more clear, I am including these basic definitions. They are taken from the American Heritage Dictionary. A state of subjection to a force, power or influence. Although it may seem through outward appearances that all the power in the relationship flows from the Dom or Master to the sub or slave, this is somewhat misleading. Both sides have power, but in different ways.